My Little Butterfly

I’m not real big on super themed rooms. I have nothing against them–in fact, I’m always a little awed at how cute some people’s kid’s rooms are! But it’s just not my thing to ever be THAT coordinated. Joshua’s room had specific colors that I liked, and a monkey night light and light switch plate. That was the extent of the coordination.

When it came time to decorate Rebecca’s room, I felt a little stuck. She would be sharing with the guest room, and I was adamantly against going pink. Too much pink, I thought, and I might hurl. So I opted for whites and yellows, and since the walls were blue, blue. Hints of pink–just hints. (Ended up with pink curtains, so the “hint of pink” is a little more than a hint …) We didn’t choose to go with any sort of animal theme, just colors and pretty decor.

It came time for me to send my ideas for the design of Becca’s name print to our cousin, Emily. She designed Joshua’s, and I was so excited to have another one done for my baby girl! I talked it over with Erik, we chose a verse, decided on the color scheme and then I asked him, “What should be on the picture?”

See, I didn’t really want owls or birds, though those baby girl designs are adorable. I didn’t want jungle beasts or zoo animals as that’s Joshua’s thing and I didn’t want him stealing her picture. 🙂 Butterflies had crossed my mind, but I don’t love butterflies either (obviously I have a problem here). However, butterflies were seeming like the way to go. And when I asked Erik, he, on his own, said butterflies as well. So it seemed we were going with the butterfly idea! So I sent our notes to Emily so she could work her magic.

Life went on, days dragged on, and we finally reached Becca’s birth day. I gathered a few items including a pink blanket with a butterfly on it. “Funny,” I thought as I folded it, “there’s a butterfly!”

Well you all know the story of Rebecca’s arrival. What should have been a perfect labor and delivery ended up unexpectedly awful when our little girl came out limp and not breathing. (See here for the story). And in the days that followed, I started to notice something: there were butterflies everywhere. On blankets given as gifts, on sleepers received from out-of-state aunties, on toys for the car seat, on swaddle wraps from friends. At first I just thought, “Well obviously Target had a line of butterfly themed items this year.”

But as I sat in the dimly lit NICU room, listening to the hum of the cooling machine that was working hard to cool my daughter in order to hopefully protect her brain from further damage, I realized something.

Becca is our butterfly. 

She came to us in this big person world but needed some extra time in a cocoon. Her cocoon happened to be a plastic box in the NICU but it was a cocoon all the same. My little girl needed some time to recover from what had happened to her–something that the rest of the world will never know or understand–and after a while in that cocoon, she could come out in all her butterfly glory. Which she has done fully–smiling and cooing and growing and pooping, my butterfly is stunningly beautiful.

And so now I have fully embraced this butterfly theme. The print from Emily is perfect. I had a light switch plate designed to match. Becca’s Auntie Jen found her a butterfly costume for Halloween.

And I still notice butterflies on her clothes and blankets and just smile now because I realize it’s not just a line from Target. It’s a reminder of God’s protection–God’s miraculous protection–of my little butterfly.

About kristinlindeen

I am Kristin. I am Erik's wife. I am Joshua, Rebecca, and Andrew's mom. I am known nationally as the "QBQ! Daughter" and keynote on Personal Accountability and the QBQ. I am certified in Myers Briggs and am passionate about helping people understand themselves and others better. I am John and Karen's daughter. I am sister to many, mentor to some, friend to others. Most defining, I am Christ's daughter, adopted by God--rescued and saved by grace. And almost every single day, I need to be reminded of that truth. Come say "hi" at and of course, browse the blog! I'd love to hear from you, so comment away!
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5 Responses to My Little Butterfly

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  3. So cute!! A beautiful way to describe her journey! Congratulations!

  4. Bonnie says:

    THis is such a beautiful story! And the picture and light switch are beautiful, as well.

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