Belief: Speaking Up in Conflict

I had a great discussion today with my client group (25 person hospital revenue cycle company) in New Orleans. We had wrapped up our session on Personal Accountability and the QBQ! and I was mentioning our book Outstanding! and its chapter titled “Speak Up”.

The president of this start up firm shared some wisdom. Let me paraphrase for all of us conflict avoiders out there:

Speak up. Get it out there. It’s okay to get mad–in fact, it’s often good to. Share what you’re thinking, share where you disagree, share share share! (and this is now a direct quote)

“As long as we’re okay by lunch or drinks, get it out there!”

Belief is Important

Better to have it out there to be dealt with than inside brewing, stirring, festering, and spiraling. When we believe in something, and believe strongly, we will push through the ickiness of conflict. Because sometimes, often times, we just have to have it. BELIEF.

She said it well! And I say, AMEN! (then we had a long discussion about whether this is a skill that can be learned, or something you just gotta do.) Good times in the training biz! Thoughts? Comments? Speak up and share! 🙂

About kristinlindeen

I am Kristin. I am Erik's wife. I am Joshua, Rebecca, and Andrew's mom. I am known nationally as the "QBQ! Daughter" and keynote on Personal Accountability and the QBQ. I am certified in Myers Briggs and am passionate about helping people understand themselves and others better. I am John and Karen's daughter. I am sister to many, mentor to some, friend to others. Most defining, I am Christ's daughter, adopted by God--rescued and saved by grace. And almost every single day, I need to be reminded of that truth. Come say "hi" at and of course, browse the blog! I'd love to hear from you, so comment away!
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